Posts by Brandon Baugh

Brandon Baugh

Brandon Baugh is a husband to a birth mother. He attended School in Laramie, Wyo., receiving a degree in diesel technology and business management. He is currently working in his field of study as a diesel technician for a fleet of over the road trucks. His wife Tiffany is not only a birth mother but also an adoptee. He started writing about adoption back in November of 2010 after he was on a husbands of birth mothers panel called “So I Married A Birth Mother” and spoke with many of the concerned and scared young women who were also birth mothers. He started writing his blog in the hopes of helping these young women confront their fears and feel strong about telling there story and creating confidence in their decision and knowing that “You Are Worth It”. He and his wife have a very open adoption with her little girl and the adoptive couple. Because of how open their adoption is with her little girl and the adoptive couple, it has opened many windows and blessings into their lives.

Mothers Day, Birthdays, and All Those Other Days

May 10, 2013
Married to a Birth Mother

One of the many things that occurs when dating a birth mother or even after getting married is dealing with holidays that bring up the memories and decisions that were made earlier on in life. Read More

Sounds in the Silence: Birth Mothers and Feeling Worthy

Oct 15, 2012
Sounds in the Silence

During a recent panel for “So I Married A Birth Mother” there was one subject that really hit me hard and made me feel for the birth mothers in the room: it was the fear of rejection. I can only imagine how these birth mothers felt and how scared they might have been when getting ready to tell someone they’re dating or someone they cared for about their story with adoption. One of many things could happen in such a situation. They could accept the facts and see the blessings that adoption brings into the lives of many, it could be scary for the person receiving the information trying to think of how this will affect their life in the long run or they could not accept the information and take it in a completely unnecessary way. Well, I’m here to tell you, you’re worth it! If a person really has a problem with your story about adoption and re-considers your relationship because of it then that person IS NOT WORTH IT! Nobody has the right to judge you for your choices and for your past. Every person out there has made choices both good and bad, big and small. Read more

A Miracle in the Making

Sep 17, 2012
Dad's Dialog

Where would we be without birth mothers? Before I got to know my wife and the decisions she had made, I really never gave it much thought about adoption and what it means to me, my wife and those who are unable to have children. Now that I know more about adoption I can’t stop thinking about the blessings that adoption brings to the lives of so many people. I hate to hear the people who have nothing but negative things to say about adoption, and how inconsiderate those people are about the feelings of those birth mothers, birth fathers, adoptive couples and those who have been adopted themselves. Those harsh comments and feelings are what have led me to write this post. I like to think deeper into things, that there are much more meaningful reasons as to why things happen. That perhaps bad things happen to challenge the lives and the hearts of others in hope that they will turn it around and make a good thing come of it. The adoption process hits both sides of that in so many different ways that to me it truly becomes more of a miracle. How does adoption start? I Read more